NO COMPROMISES

 

If you have to compromise your conviction or lower your standard to get into a relationship listen up, you will have to continue to compromise your conviction or lower your standard to keep that relationship. And if that's the case then it was not sent by God. Since I'm not married yet, I've heard a few telling me that my standards are too high and I have to compromise. My standards are set by God. God is not going to place standards and convictions in my heart for my future husband that he is not going to obtain and I'm not married yet, because it's not my time. Some of you aren't married yet, it's simply because it's not your time. God sets the time for everything. Everything has a season, a pre-destined time. God places desires in your heart. It doesn't mean that HE gives you everything that you want, but He places His heart in yours so that you'll begin desiring what He has for you. If you would've asked me what I wanted in a husband 3 years ago, my answer would have been different from what I would say today. Because not only have I grown more in Christ but also my priorities have changed. If you are going to lower your standard, you will be miserable. So many people say " I want to be married" but that is not true because you want to be "HAPPILY MARRIED". Some people are miserable, lonely and unhappy in their marriage because they didn't wait on the Lord. If you are not willing to wait on God don't blame him for the mess that you put yourself in. The word of God says this : Don't let man separate what God joined together. What about the relationships that God didn't join together? And then, we sit and pray,"God fix him/her, God change this thing" But God said "I didn't put you in that relationship , You refused to wait on Me. You lowered your standards, you didn't trust Me".

Trust the Lord and wait on Him. He will bring the right person into your life at the perfect time. And never lower your standard to be in a relationship.